So, last night at
church, we were planning to dive back into a study on the book of
Kings, but due to technical difficulties we decided to have an "Ask Anything Sunday" service (kinda like
Dr. Mohler's "Ask Anything Wednesday"
radio show, only not on the radio, and not with Dr. Mohler).
One question that caused many of us to stop and think was, "Is it right to use birth control to decide how many and when we have children, or should we simply trust God with the number and timing?" This question hit home with me because recently my wife asked me the same question after reading a
book by
Nancy Leigh DeMoss. In the book entitled
Lies Women Believe and the Truth That Sets Them Free!, DeMoss claims that one lie women believe is that they should have any deciding role in family planning. She argues that family planning should be God's prerogative.
So, I was thankful that we were able to approach this question thoughtfully last night. No one, however, had solid logical, fully biblical, and convincing arguments for or against non-abortive birth control. We moved on from the question leaving the choice up to the personal conviction of the family.
Thankfully, brother Justin found this
great article on John Piper's
web site. "John Piper and most of the pastors on staff believe that non-abortive forms of birth control are permissible," and they make several great points to support their position. First, they argue that just because children are good gifts from the Lord we should not necessarily seek as many of these good gifts as possible, just like a wife is a good gift from the Lord (
Proverbs 18:22), but it is not necessarily wrong to
stay single. If we are focused on kingdom purposes, we are free to manage the resources God gives us.
Second, they argue, birth control is no guarantee that a couple will not have a child. We don't shun haircuts so God can determine the length of our hair, and farmers don't necessarily cultivate every acre of land that they own (especially if they have lots of land). God actually desires for us to manage his creation for his glory. "God very often causes us to plan as the
means towards improving our lives and advancing His kingdom purposes."
There are other very good arguments in this article that support the view that birth control is permissible and may even be considered a blessing from God if used for the right reasons.
Thankful for freedom in Christ and God's sovereign rule over this world,
Todd